OK people setting fire to your husband’s genitals is just wrong. I don’t care what he did, or with who he did it with it, still wrong! Adelaide woman Rajini Narayan is alleged to have doused methylated spirits over Satish Narayan’s gentials whilst he was sleeping, before setting him alight. Satish remains in a critical condition in hospital with 85 % of his body burnt and isn’t expected to survive. Mrs Narayan suspected her husband was having an affair. I am gathering Rajini is unrepentant as she stood with her back to the court during her hearing.
UPDATE : Mrs Narayan has said in court “I’m a jealous wife, his penis should belong to me, I just wanted to burn his penis so it belongs to me and no one else.It’s just his penis I wanted to burn, I didn’t mean this to happen.” Oh dear, the old penis belongs to me defence!
UPDATE: Satish Narayan has died from his injuries (20 days after being set alight) and his wife will now face charges of manslaughter or murder.
LATEST UPDATE : Narayan has been cleared of murdering her hubby but found guilty of the lesser charge of manslaughter. She will be sentenced on the 22nd of November.
I can not believe how sick one can be to set the fire on someone’s genital area. She belongs in the prison for life time. She basically planned on killing him,… so that is attempted murder. Don’t matter what the situation was, she could have left him. She is a evil woman. Can not understand how one human being can do to another. She needs to be tortured just like the way he is suffering.
I only pray to god, he survives…..
Mohini Chandra, you need to ask yourself do you know the intricate details of their lives. Keep those opinions which are wrong to yourself.. She didn’t do it on purpose and he technically deserved it..he dropped the bottle.
Wow, Chelsea, what kind of dope are you smoking? or are you just a man hater and think all men deserve there junk burned off?
His wife poured it on his junk , put the bottle down, lit his junk on fire, he jumps up screaming in pain and knocks the bottle over, thus causeing the fire to spread. How the hell is that his fault??
Maybe YOU need to read the story again.
Well, I can say what BOTH of them did was WRONG! The guy cheated on his wife! Do you have any idea how terrible of a shock this is for an Indian women, any women in that note. But Indian culture is so much more conservative…. so cheating on her with an Aussie, and we all know Aussie culture is very “lose, quick and easy”… it’s the worst insult. Indian culture is not quick to give a divorce either. That’s another factor.
They have three kids, even more of a fact to make her feel so shocked and in pain…
She didn’t WANT TO KiLL HIM, got it, she just wanted him to pay the price… the price was his genitals… which is obviously the only area you can classify for the use of cheating. He probably was a typical man, still wanting to get down and dirty with his wife while having a lover girl on the side…
So you need to see there are two sides to the story.
What he did was wrong, what she did was wrong.
He didn’t deserve to die, but he deserved to get burned as he burned her (by a broken heart).
She doesn’t deserve to go to prison, but she does need menal support as this is a painful experience for her and needs the best caring doctors around to help her get through this.
He may not have deserve to die, but he is paying for his crimes in the other world, but she is paying for her one and only crime in this world.
So maybe we as an “audience” should not judge who is right or wrong, because they both are right and wrong.
It’s a very sad story,
and the worst is the kids.
They just lost their father and also their mother if she goes to jail.
They see him as a father figure, to his wife its a different story.
As their father its terrible to lose this figure in your life. And as their mother, it is terrible to see that their father caused her so much pain.
So you can see, this is something that will be the pain of their lives and perhaps they cannot even understand anyone at the moment for they cant even view one or the other side objectively.
All we can do is hope the wife doesn’t have to pay for her whole life with her ONE mistake, which she is paying for his many mistakes, where his ONE moment of life and death came too soon…
Chelsea and Rani, both of you are sick, better you take some psychiatric advice from experts. Rani you are talking about Indian Culture. Do you know how many Indian man are affected because of that culture? If same thing happened to any Indian girl by their husband, will you give same comments like this? Like Mohini Chandra said, she needs to be tortured just like the way he was suffered. She belongs in the prison for life time.
Please dont blame Indian Culture to such things…The Indian Culture has nothing to do with this. I believe that all married couples need help when it comes to cheating. Why commit to someone if you cant keep your promises. No one should break or take the law into their own hands.
Yup, culture has got nothing to do here.
Fundamentally both beings were wrong in their doings. One got punished (may be a way to harshly), but via wrong hands. Now other left to be punished.
May God give strength to the kids….!
She is a perfect Witch. Chelsea and Rani are no less. They support such animalistic aggression. Moreover, she had suspected, she was not 100% confirmed. So the man’s infidelity is yet to be proven. For a sec if I hold it to be true, there are number of ways of punishing the person with the help of law. Mostly, when the law is women biased.
I feel, she deserves a prosecution in one of the courts Saudi Arabia.
didn’t one article say the husband got caught HUGGING a woman?? how is that cheating? humans seriously need to learn to deal with things that happen to them in a better way.. divorcing him and getting half of whatever he was worth would have been a MUCH better revenge!
Good I say. my husband cheated on me once and I nearly died. You see us Indian girls are not designed to take a husband cheating, we love them with every breath and soo much that we will burn of their genitals if they flirt with a another women.
So beware u cheating husbands this might catch on
How sad it is that a human is dead and some people are comparing cultures. What has happened here is a crime and should be looked at as a crime. Cheating is not a noble thing to do in any culture/religion/society, but this does not deserve death. Once penis or any other body part does not belong to anyone else and just because you are married, you DO NOT have the right to burn anything.
She has killed someones brother, father, son, uncle and friend and she deserves to rot in hell for it. Some women need to realise that just because you think your partner is cheating, DOES NOT MEAN they are. Get your heads examined I say.
May Satish’s soul rest in peace.
” … if two policemen see a rape and watch it just for their own amusement, no violation of the Constitution. … (laughter)” was the winning legal argument by Chief Justice Rehnquist in the United States Supreme Court, Nov 02, 1989 hearing in the lawbreaking 1989 DeShaney case. Naive women, jurists protect rapists in man’s world ruled by men or women.
Re-think your comments. Thanks.
The truth is she only suspected her husband of having an affair. So Chelsea, Seema and any others, do you think it is right to torch the genitals of someone you profess to love on the basis of an accusation? In the end though, she won’t be charged but will probably be commited as criminally insane. Who else but an insane person would even contemplate such an act?
A married person should NEVER love any other person romantically except that of his/her wife/husband, EVER.
A person should NEVER raise suspicions of having an affair to his/her lover, EVER, whether or not he/she is actually having an affair or not.
A person should NEVER claim another person’s body part as their own property and then seek to destroy it, EVER.
A person should NEVER light fires indoors, near flammable liquids, EVER.
A person should NEVER assume that lighting someone on fire has no risk in killing that person, EVER.
These are a few things ignorant people can learn to prevent domestic violence from happening. It is too late for Mr. and Mrs. Narayan, but hopefully the kids will learn from what has happened.
No one has the right to hurt another human being so violently. Being married to a person does not mean that you own them.
Inflicting pain to another is a crime.
This woman should rot in hell.
Please do not come to conclusions based on lies. The family have been very understanding of the media and their job to report and make up juicy details. I can validate through court reports that no comment has been made by the accused Rajini Narayan concerning ‘the penis belonged to me’. The press have been printing lies to create a public case. The truth of the day has not been released and when it is trust me you will not be seeing Rajini Narayan as a criminal but warrior.
Get over it…even if the guy did cheat, he didn’t deserve this.
Hi James thanks for the drive-by.
OMG I can’t believe someone would do this because he cheated on her. You just LEAVE, WALK AWAY and get on with your life. Poor guy.
before making any negative comments one should think what made rajini do that. maybe satish deserved it. married to rajini for 20 years and having and an affair before he got married, lying to his family and supporting his mistress, paying her holiday bills etc.
No one deserves that. One word for you “divorce” that is what people do in the civilized world!
Divorce may be what you do in the civilized world. But would she be allowed to, in the world she lived in? No way. No abuser who also happens to be Indian will allow his wife to live in the civilized world. To live in the civilized world, you also need the backing and support of the civilized world. Guaranteed she wouldn’t get that.
You don’t have to be Indian to have a hard time doing the right thing in the civilized world. Ask victims who have tried to leave and nearly lost their lives or lost their kids?
o and by the way do not always believe the press.
Maybe the second one is the one he really wanted to be with . Hell hath no fury as they say. I hope she enjoys her stay courtesy of Her Majesty because that’s no way to conduct yourself regardless of what he did. She’s worse than him. And this standing with her back to the court, when you show no respect for our legal system why should they show you any. I’m over your arranged marriages and your backward ways. Drag yourselves into this century or get out.
i wonder whose now paying the bills for poor money sucking mistress…
I don’t think that’s your problem now is it?
Hmm and I wonder who paid for hubby’s medical bills, her stay in jail and her kids welfare (if there is any!).
She’s from Adelaide so the Government will now be paying and do we mind “Of Course Not” someone has to now mind her children and I hope they don’t have their mother’s mentality. That I would mind. In fact, they are probably better of being brought up by the Aussie to live the Aussie lifestyle seeing as their mother and father already chose that for them but did not live it. . They will also learn that we do not own our husband’s penis.
Friggin cave dwellers ! send them all back .
I think she is minding her kids. They are probably love her and are glad she doesn’t get to spend time in jail.
If her kids were brought up here, they would be much less sensitive, more abrasive, brash, straight, etc. But they will see through abusive spouses and have no loyalty to marriage like she did. They will be out in a shot and not suffer like their mother did. She was probably encouraged to stay by church leaders, and she wasn’t one to rebel.
Reading through the thread, there are a lot of crazies hiding behind civilized normal looking faces in our society.
I cannot believe there are people justifying burning of any parts of the anatomy (especially the genitals) as payback for cheating.
Also, trying to use “cultural or gender differences” as excuses. Would it be ok for a man who loves his wife to death to harm the genital of the cheating-wfe or her lover?
It’s real shame that only when it comes on relative anonymous blogging that the true “nature” of these crazies come out in the open.
Hi Eiz, thank you for taking the time to comment. Yes, it amazes me too.
First of all, i dont think anyone has the right to talk about Rajini and Satish’s issue on here, no one knows what has happened in that house, their personal problems…etc. So, its better if all of you negative people keep your thoughts to yourself, she did what she thought was right at the moment, if you guys were in her position, you guys would probably do the same thing or even worse. The Narayan’s might have issues that werent solved, and people adding their two-sense to whats not true…makes the situation worse. Rajini is going through the pain and also handling her business, not many women face their fears, but she is! Alot of married couples argue and always lead to a bad situation. So dont get me wrong, but keep your thoughts to yourself, i support Rajini.
Hmm, well if you want people to keep their thoughts to themselves, why don’t you. How do you know what she thinks. At least I am not pretending to know. And how would you know what “we” would do in the same situation. I think you need to sell crazy somewhere else!
Actually, at least in Australia (where these events occurred), everyone has the right to free speech. So we can talk about whatever we wish.
That’s right Joe, democracy has it’s up side
Sheesh I missed this! I could’ve put my claws to good use here.
I thought you were busy working, not trawling archives…
Oh I am, I am … I was just having a snack and a read at the same time
TF you’re not my boss … you’d be finding me everywhere!
That’s a scary thought !!!
Lucky boss, some might say…
If I’m not mistaken in Indian culture, if the husband is dead and will be cremated the wife also will have to be cremated alive with her husband remains.
Correct me if i’m wrong, i think the “ceremony” was also mentioned in some books, Around the world in 80 days to name a few.
This isn’t the dark ages and she can just go to jail with the rest of the bad asses.We are in the year 2009
So that is a tasering first and then to jail, right Ann?
Wow, this thread was a great read…
I with you Ann… Send the crazy junk burning bitch to jail…
Did anyone ever follow this up… Googling in progress.
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Meow what did you say?
just a spell correction… I meant to type …
I’m with you Ann.
It’s ok I’m not the spelling police. I ignore typos as I can’t be bothered going over it sometimes myself.
Didn’t find a whole lot.
Some of the headlines that come up from a websearch are just plain funny…
The case has been adjourned to January Cat God Frank
Folks, pretty messy stuff… this occupation of alighting your partners private parts… I have pondered about the possible sequence of events that might have instigated this burning love into a disastrous house fire consuming in the process a life of a partner and gutting properties worth a fortune. However preposterous and heinous this assault on a deeply slumbered husband maybe, the actions invite speculations. Now speculations is only what I provide here.
It is my theory, by way of studying countless trails in various newspapers printing willful fictions and various other articles relating to the depravity that has occurred in a not-so-peaceful Adelaide (I witnessed a gunshot and a stabbing in just a few hours I spent in Adelaide) as one may find in the deep recesses of the word wide web, I have drawn conclusion that :
1. The husband may have been inflicting mental or physical torture (or both). The line is a small statement but the consequences can be huge. I am sure that people who don’t take their vows seriously have thoughts otherwise. But I beg to differ from the so called Aussies that inhabit this wonderful island continent. Australia is a nation of Australian values and Aussie culture. One of such Australian value is to honor our word and stand by our word with conviction. Australia is a proud nation. Proud of the values and morals that have been the solid pillars of this country. However, somewhere down the line, people have ‘lost’ their Aussie values and have generally become whores to ‘modern’ culture. Modernism is a fancy word for hippies, whores, doping mongrels and criminals that have scoured the riches of this lovely country.
Returning the the defense of my statement, such a mental trauma in a troubled relationship spanning 20 years with 3 kids can be a “real” mental trauma. Indian culture must be respected for the sole reason that most women are ‘devoted’ wives. By any statistical conclusions, Aussie wives divorce rates outnumber Indian wives by a 85%. The values and morals of Indian ‘wife’ has been defined by a rich fear enshrined in their deeply religious beliefs which teaches them that any infidelity will not go severely unpunished. And they stand by their faith. Further, their love of their husbands are far greater than an average marriage by Aussie standards. This would also mean that the mental trauma is greater. Indian women are also not vocal and tend to keep their sorrows to themselves which may explode in a violent unhumane murderous rage inciting an act such as this. Cheating and acts of immorality is unforgivable (period).
2. You will not understand point number 1 unless you love or learn to love your husbands the way that an Indian woman has been taught to do by her culture, society and religion.
3. The flip side of the Indian culture is unfair male domination on matters that require urgent attention. Most Indian husbands DO think that they can cheat on their wives, anytime, anywhere and get away with it… especially with a foreign cunt. This would instantly bring ‘murder’ to the mind of any Indian wife who find that her husband is cheating.
4. Most Indian men, especially Indian males are however in my opinion completely or at least more than partially f**** up because they live in Australia yet decide to flaunt its values and blame Australia and raise hue and cry over every thing they encounter. They are generally arrogant, stupid, persistent to a degree of irritation, sickeningly dirty, introverts with attitude, unwelcoming, unfriendly, unsociable, etc. etc.
5. The wife, in this particular case is stupid if she did the act on mere suspicion and in that event, the police should investigate the facts that lead up to the murder and validate her claims.
6. If the husband was indeed cheating on her, a psychiatrist (preferably at least 20 married Indian women with kids) should be consulted as to understand and draw magnitudes of possible reaction gauging on the psychological and emotional distress.
7. If the husband had been cheating on her for a long time, and the wife found this out later … possibly even several years later the magnitude of grief and degree of anger would be at least double.
8. Confrontation of most Indian men don’t help (period). They are usually stupid and think they are superior to women and in order to maintain such superiority, they should just waive or trivialize any doubts a wife may have.
9. A loving spouse, driven to a fit of rage sometimes in seconds after discovering the ‘cheating’ or pent up fit of rage that has been pressured to a degree of atomic reaction over number of month of pain and anguish, even years of such mental trauma can come to a well planned and executed reaction resulting in a murder. But this murder is a reaction to eliminate the source of the pain. The murder is by reasons of temporary insanity after a fit of rage caused by pent up emotions spanning many days, months, years…. However, this ground may not apply because the infidel dork was sleeping when we was cast alight by a wife in a fit of rage. But it still is so because anger can be collected and pressured simply by an act of recollection and thinking of all those times that didn’t cross your mind when your partner was cheating. Such thoughts is enough to collect particles of atom in your brain to explode with a force of 1kt nuclear bomb. This is by a mere act of recollection and thinking.
10. Avoid things like these so you don’t burn your partners junkyard. Stand by your vows. Be faithful. Be loving. Be Proud. Be Aussie.
A lot of Indian women do not have a career, and are dependent on their husbands for their survival. Even if they are working, divorcees are not respected by the society, and have to lead pretty much a lonely life, looked at with pity by other women and speculation about her role in the straying of her husband, as easy game by men, and absolutely no support from friends or family. A lot of Indian men in traditional arranged marriages are overbearing, can be abusive, and violent too. Women put up with it because divorce is an even worser life. After all these sacrifices, if a man doesn’t even have the decency to not stray, the blow to the woman is tremendous. It can cause unstable reactions. So who is to blame. It is easy for one coming from other cultures, or having a happy life, to sit on judgement, but one who battle’s everyday to retain sanity can understand the pain of others, and pray that god helps all these painful marriages, that seem happy only on the surface, so that they do not do anything foolish, in the heat of the moment, and regret it later.
Right or Wrong?
Fact is that he is dead & gone and unable to cry in court…
Fact is that she is an old illiterate Indian women with hardly any English and dressed in lots of flowing colorful dresses.
fact is that this should be irrelevant, BUT it is everything important in Australia!
Conclusion: She is going to walk free and the Judge is likely to say some meningless hogwash that can be taken in any witch way you like, End of story.
PS: I think she should NOT be charged at all, just deported back to India together with the corpse a police report, and let them deal with their common problems.
She is not from India, so you can’t send her back to India. Yes, I know her .
I get really really angry reading all these comments.
People are so ignorant. Just as well she doesn’t depend on these folks for the validation of the truth.
She couldn’t divorce. And if you can’t understand why, again, you cannot understand the intricacies of the case. If YOU were in her shoes you would have done exactly the same thing. No, actually, worse, because she has a heart that is better than 90% of people I have ever met. If you were an Aussie, you would have left a long time ago, got restraining orders, called a b*tch by his friends and lost the kids to him because of court orders, and the kids would have disrespected her for allowing the court to dictate matters. But you would have survived because you would’ve found support, from your culture, friends and family. Many victims of domestic violence are too psychologically battered to leave, I don’t know how people expect them to leave – it’s like expecting child sex workers in Thailand to just leave their bosses. Like they have an equal relationship? Get real – one has dominated and the other suppressed!
Yes, he DID have an affair, and he admitted it, and she has the proof, and the proof was shown in court. That doesn’t mean what she did was right, but she was not in a rational state of mind. She is not and was not an abusive person. She was the victim.
Yes, unfortunately he is dead, and before he died, he told the kids it was not their mother’s fault. She, being the victim, blamed it all on herself, and mourned for a whole year, sleeping on the floor and fasting. Her kids, however, in their submission for sentencing, talked about their relief and how much better their lives were. If you care for the kids, you would be relieved too.
Yeah, yeah, I know, I will get replies saying I am a male-basher, etc. Whatever. Any diversion. Truth doesn’t matter, does it.
Extremely Barbaric, cannot be justified at all. This act of hers is a big shame.
If she would have been in India, the feminists there, would have ensured, that she goes scot-free. Indian laws are very much biased towards unscrupulous wives. Search for 498a, Hindu Marriage Act, DV act. A husband asking divorce is looked as if, he has committed a big crime. Indian legal system as a whole isn’t at all democratic(civilized) in nature, and so is true about Indian society in general. Someone above has commented, that “divorce” is a civilized way. Try telling that to an Indian women, and see the reaction. From some of the comments above, well anyone can gauge the level of civility that these Indian wives have.
Guess what? She lives in Australia, abide by the laws or face the consequences!
Yeah I saw that rear it’s ugly head in the Herald Sun and knew if would it would appear here again.
HIS PENIS WAS MINE ????? Wft. No she should be jailed here as she will get off probably in her own country. You come here to live , wear it !