Well, well, well, it seems when it comes to love men are the first ones to say “I love you” when starting a new relationship. It takes them about 3 months to say it, which is about six weeks earlier than women. Interesting! Hmm, but be careful girls, men may be just using it to get you into bed. Sheez, after three months you would friggin think so! Women on the other hand use it when they want to seek commitment, which usually puts the fear of living bejesus into the men and they take off faster than a rat up a drainpipe.